Built on What I've Lived, Not What I've Read
I see education as a catalyst for real change. Consent as something you practice, not just preach. Connection as the foundation everything else is built on. My curriculum comes from years in the trenches, not a syllabus.
Classes & Workshops
Judgment-free, no-nonsense education for people who want real answers. From kink fundamentals to relationship strategy to self-discovery, I run immersive workshops online and in-person.
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Personalized guidance built around your goals. Whether you're untangling relationship patterns, stepping into power dynamics, or scaling your career, I bring sharp strategy and genuine care to every session.
LEARN MORESpeaking & Keynotes
Real stories, sharp analysis, and zero sugarcoating. Keynotes, panels, and consulting engagements that confront stigma head-on and center the perspectives that mainstream spaces keep ignoring.
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Blunt. Warm.
Actually Useful.
I don't lecture. I break things down until they click. I build rooms where people feel safe enough to ask the questions they've been sitting on for years, challenge their own assumptions, and walk out different than they walked in.
My workshops combine research-backed frameworks with hard-earned personal experience, delivered with warmth, honesty, and enough edge to keep you paying attention. Growth starts with understanding.
A Taste of What I Teach
Available to teach in-person and virtually for groups and organizations. This is just a sample of my curriculum.
KINK, BDSM & RELATIONSHIPS
- The Psychology of Restraint: why we crave it and what it teaches us
- Emotional Safety in Edge Play: trust-building and aftercare
- The Art of Tease & Denial: neuropsychology meets seduction
- Power Exchange 101: building D/s dynamics with emotional intelligence
- Consent as Creative Power: negotiation frameworks that actually work
- Navigating Jealousy, Insecurity & Mismatched Desire
ADVOCACY & ETHICS
- Online Censorship & the War on Sex Workers: what you need to know
- Survivor-Led Advocacy in Alternative Spaces
- Why Decriminalization Matters: a policy, public health, and human rights lens
- Peer Support & Harm Reduction Models: community-based care
- The Myth of Respectability: power, politics, and the policing of desire
- When the Law Isn't On Our Side: navigating criminalization and stigma
BUSINESS & CONTENT CREATION
- Building a Content Empire That's Actually Yours
- Recession-Proof Your Hustle: protecting your income when everything shifts
- Branding, Pricing & Positioning for Independent Professionals
- Your Brand Is Not Your Worth: navigating visibility and parasociality
- Content Strategy for the Long Game: working with burnout and limitations
- Automation, Systems & Scaling Without Selling Your Soul
SAFETY & MENTAL HEALTH
- Joy as Resistance: building spaces centered in play, power, and possibility
- Performing vs. Living Identity: expression, authenticity, and the gaze
- Neurodivergent Navigation in Kink & Play
- From Policy to Practice: training staff for inclusive environments
- Burnout is Not a Badge: rest, recovery, and sustainable creative practice
- Boundaries as Self-Preservation: the art of the unapologetic no
Relationship & Life Coaching
Navigate intimacy, desire, power, and communication with clarity and confidence. Tailored support for individuals, couples, or polycules seeking to deepen trust, negotiate dynamics, or explore safely and authentically.
- Developing consent frameworks that actually work
- Building D/s dynamics with emotional intelligence
- Kink discovery, play negotiation, and aftercare
- Navigating jealousy, insecurity, or mismatched desire
- Power exchange and relationship repair
- Boundary setting and radical self-advocacy
- Supporting neurodivergent partners and systems
Coaching Investment
In-person and virtual options available. Due to the nature of my schedule, I can only take a limited number of coaching clients at a time.
Discovery Call
A no-pressure conversation to see if we're a good fit and map out what coaching could look like for you.
Initial Consultation
A deep-dive assessment to understand where you are, where you want to go, and plot a course for your journey.
Ongoing Coaching
Regular sessions tailored to your goals. Price reflects the nature of coaching needed. Virtual and in-person options.
Check-in Calls
Quick phone or Zoom check-ins for accountability, troubleshooting, and keeping momentum between full sessions.
Business & Career Consulting
Honest, practical support from someone who's lived it. For content creators, independent professionals, and entrepreneurs ready to level up their business, protect their energy, or realign with their purpose.
- Pricing, positioning, and platform diversification
- Brand audits and creative vision development
- Time management, burnout prevention, and scaling up
- Boundaries, parasocial dynamics, and emotional labor
- Marketing strategy across social, email, and niche platforms
- Financial planning, taxes, and long-term strategy
- Hiring help: assistants, editors, or collaborators
- Navigating online censorship and deplatforming
Initial Consultation
An online or in-person assessment of your business, brand, and goals. We identify your biggest leverage points.
Brand Audit
You share all your links and platforms. I do a deep-dive analysis of your brand, offerings, marketing, and positioning.
Ongoing Coaching
Subsequent sessions. Virtual and in-person options available. Price reflects the nature of coaching needed.
Check-in Calls
Accountability check-ins done via phone or Zoom. Stay on track with the changes you're making.
Direct. Unfiltered.
Impossible to Ignore.
From kink conventions to wellness retreats to private corporate events, I speak with equal parts depth and precision on subjects that others are afraid to touch.
My voice isn't just informed by lived experience. It's shaped by years of leadership, community-building, and unflinching confrontation of taboo. Whether I'm on a panel, headlining a keynote, or leading a workshop, I bring the same intention: to make people feel seen, challenged, and transformed.
PANEL TOPICS
Signature Keynotes
Presentations can be tailored to suit your audience, whether it's a festival, nonprofit, brand campaign, or private event.
"Reclaiming Dangerous Womanhood"
An exploration of femme power, fear-based control, and what it means to thrive unapologetically at the intersection of sexual agency and societal expectation.
"Stigma is a System"
A piercing look at how stigma operates as a mechanism of control, and how we dismantle it through storytelling, solidarity, and systemic change.
"Building Power at the Margins"
A roadmap to authentic leadership in communities that have been pushed aside, drawn from years of community organizing and creative entrepreneurship.
"Consent as Creative Power"
Moving beyond checklists to consent as a living practice. How intentional negotiation becomes a tool for deeper connection, better art, and more honest relationships.
Credentials & Experience
Not Sure Where to Start?
Book a free discovery call. No pressure, no scripts. We'll figure out the right path together.
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